- Add attn_paged_decode wrapper in ops.py with gather fallback
- Register kernel in loader.py and export from __init__.py
- Extract test_utils.cuh shared by all attention unit tests
- Rename attn_paged_vs_contiguous.cu to attn_paged_decode_test.cu
- Refactor decode/prefill tests to use common bf16 helpers and cpu ref
- Fix k_cache dim check in attn_paged_decode.cu
