refactor: 检查点加载重构，路径替代对象传递

- model: nn.Module -> model_fn 工厂函数，spawn 边界只传字符串
- Trainer.train(resume_dir=path) — Checkpoint 不再通过 pickle 传递
- TrainContextBuilder.with_resume_dir(path) — 自动检测 meta.json 分流 resume/from-scratch
- CheckpointCallback: 拆分 state_dict 收集（全 rank）与磁盘写入（rank-0），修复 FSDP 死锁
- serialization: load_torch 支持 broadcast，消除 _load_extra/_load_torch_broadcast
- optimizer/scheduler 恢复逻辑内联到 build()，在 executor.prepare() 之后执行
- pyproject.toml: ruff exclude build/ 避免 CI 扫描构建产物

tests/trainer/conftest.py

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ class TrainerDataset(Dataset):
 
 
 def create_train_config(
-    model: torch.nn.Module,
+    model_fn,
     dataset: Dataset,
     test_dir: str,
     device: str,
@@ -43,7 +43,7 @@ def create_train_config(
     """Factory function to create common TrainConfig for tests.
 
     Args:
-        model: The model to train
+        model_fn: Model factory (callable returning nn.Module)
         dataset: Training dataset
         test_dir: Checkpoint directory
         device: Device type ("cuda" or "cpu")
@@ -70,7 +70,7 @@ def create_train_config(
 
     return TrainConfig(
         strategy=strategy,
-        model=model,
+        model_fn=model_fn,
         dataset=dataset,
         optimizer_fn=optimizer_fn,
         scheduler_fn=scheduler_fn,