refactor: 检查点加载重构，路径替代对象传递

- model: nn.Module -> model_fn 工厂函数，spawn 边界只传字符串
- Trainer.train(resume_dir=path) — Checkpoint 不再通过 pickle 传递
- TrainContextBuilder.with_resume_dir(path) — 自动检测 meta.json 分流 resume/from-scratch
- CheckpointCallback: 拆分 state_dict 收集（全 rank）与磁盘写入（rank-0），修复 FSDP 死锁
- serialization: load_torch 支持 broadcast，消除 _load_extra/_load_torch_broadcast
- optimizer/scheduler 恢复逻辑内联到 build()，在 executor.prepare() 之后执行
- pyproject.toml: ruff exclude build/ 避免 CI 扫描构建产物

astrai/config/train_config.py

@@ -17,8 +17,8 @@ def required(**kw):
 @dataclass
 class TrainConfig(BaseConfig):
     # basic setting
-    model: nn.Module = field(
-        default=None, metadata=required(help="Model for training.")
+    model_fn: Callable[[], nn.Module] = field(
+        default=None, metadata=required(help="Model factory for training.")
     )
     strategy: str = field(default=None, metadata=required(help="Training strategy."))
     dataset: Dataset = field(